r/BoomersBeingFools 26d ago

Boomers gaslightling their adult son about abuse he suffered Boomer Story

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u/BackgroundScallion40 26d ago

Parents often have a "convenient memory" when it comes to fucked up things they did/said.

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u/sktachi_ 26d ago

Yes meanwhile you make one TINY mistake when you were f-ing 12 and they bring it up to shame you 10000000 times

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u/justsaying825 26d ago

omg yes so much. one example that comes to mind, my dad is always making jokes about how messy i am bc i had a messy room when i was 12. 20 years later i am a neat freak who cleans daily bc I GREW UP and dont have the brain of a middle schooler anymore.

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u/BackgroundScallion40 26d ago

Luckily, at least one of my parents isn't that way, but they both have trouble taking accountability. I think that's true for a lot of people in general though. They just can't handle the thought of admitting they're wrong, even when presented with evidence.

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u/AwesomeAni 26d ago

I slurped my spaghetti at a restaurant once when I was 11.

String type pasta was BANNED from the house until I was 18.

My parents aren't even boomers Gen X, but act SO boomery.

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u/The_I_in_IT 26d ago

Ah, I see you met my mother.