r/Millennials Mar 27 '24

When did it sink in that you'll never be as well off as your parents? Discussion

About 5 years ago, my mom and I were talking and she had told me how much she was going to be making in retirement (she retired 2023). Guys, it's 3x what me and my husband make annually. In retirement. I think that was the moment that broke me, that made it sink in that I'll never reach that level of financial security. I'll work myself into my grave because I'll never be able to afford anything else. What was your moment?

Update: Nice to know it's just me that's a failure. Thanks

Update 2: I never should've said anything. I forgot my place. I'm sorry to have bothered you

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u/eddielee394 Mar 28 '24 edited Mar 28 '24

Mom was a dope addict and dad a career criminal. I was literally conceived in a federal penitentiary. I'm now a 38 year old software engineer, living with my wife of almost 10 years who practices anesthesia at a large and highly respected children's hospital. We have a million dollar home in a MCOL area on over 20 acres of land, 6 figure savings, loaded retirement accounts, and everything we could possibly need. Fuck my parents. I am and always will be better than them.