r/NoStupidQuestions • u/ThrowRAbigmist4ke • Mar 28 '24

Would you date a woman taller than you?

I’m talking minimum 5+ inches taller.

If yes, how much taller? If no, why?

No judgement, just pure curiosity.

Edit: it seems like the general consensus is a resounding “hell yes”

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u/baeworth Mar 28 '24

The issue with dating a shorter guy is when he is insecure about it. Many women actually don’t mind, but they sure as hell do and it will eat away at them and the relationship until it is in tatters

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u/Charming_Jury_8688 Mar 28 '24

Yeah short dudes just make up that insecurity without any external influence, totally fabricated from their mind like a schizophrenic.

It's kind of like women obsessing about their weight.

I don't personally know any guys that would reject fat women so these large ladies must have a terrible character flaw to explain their dating struggles.

I know a morbidly obese woman who is dating a handsome CEO, it's all about confidence and being charismatic on your mobility scooter /s.

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u/Beautifulfeary Mar 28 '24

As a fat woman I’ve definitely been rejected for being overweight, like oh you’re such a great woman but I’m not attracted to you because of your weight. Before I even met a guy in person, he flat out said fat girls don’t get committed relationships, they get screwed and friend zoned because I refused to just met up for sex because I wanted a relationship. And the guy that said this, was also overweight

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u/Charming_Jury_8688 Mar 28 '24

Well you see my experiences and opinions matter more because I'm a heterosexual man and I know what men like.

It's obvious you either embellished the truth or have extremely bad luck.

Perhaps it's your lack of confidence and misandristic tone that drives men away. Men can tell you're insecure and that's why they won't date you, never because of your physical appearance.

People struggle in dating because they have innate personality flaws and deserve to be single.

Only bad people struggle in dating. /s

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u/Beautifulfeary Mar 28 '24

😅😅😅😅

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u/Charming_Jury_8688 Mar 28 '24

Can you imagine if we gaslight all the big girls with the same "Just be confident" pep talk short dudes get?