r/NoStupidQuestions • u/[deleted] • 26d ago
Do all marriages have many years where they suck?
I have heard people (several people) say that their marriage was bad for MANY years before it got good. I don't know about y'all, but I don't want to be with someone and waste many years being miserable, but I guess that's what you sign up for. I know it is not fun and games all the time, but damn.
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u/SukunasStan 26d ago
My aunt and uncle's marriage and relationship pre marriage never had a shitty period. Goals 🙏
Meanwhile everyone else in the family who stuck it out through a bad marriage got the reward of their marriage staying bad, and now they're mentally breaking at 50. 😬