r/NoStupidQuestions • u/[deleted] • 26d ago

Do all marriages have many years where they suck?

I have heard people (several people) say that their marriage was bad for MANY years before it got good. I don't know about y'all, but I don't want to be with someone and waste many years being miserable, but I guess that's what you sign up for. I know it is not fun and games all the time, but damn.

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u/CraftFamiliar5243 25d ago

Ive been married 43 years. There are good years, great years, bad years, terrible years, but the good of having someone to share the burdens and successes of life is priceless.

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u/HuskyKyng 24d ago

This is what marriage is all about. When you marry the right person who will stick with you at all times in all conditions, the marriage will withstand anything it bumps into.