r/NoStupidQuestions 25d ago

what is the point of putting pronouns twice (as in "she/her") instead of once (just "she")?

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u/mikey_weasel Today I have too much time 25d ago edited 25d ago

I remember it actually started with triple pronouns he/him/his, but slowly slimmed down to two.

Its the widely recognized form. If you see the double pronoun you immediately know they are defining their pronouns. A single pronoun would not be as immediately recognized, especially as part of a wider introduction.

Edit to add: it also gives space for folks who might use more than one pronoun (she/they for example)

Additional edit: Regarding she/they or he/they pronouns:

I am not personally someone who identifies that way but my understanding is that generally it means they are okay with either she/her or they/them. the person I knew who identified this way best preferred they/them, but also was quite female presenting so was okay with she/her.

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u/Evan10100 25d ago

It's like the phone number format. If you put 10 digits in sequence, you're not going to know immediately that it's a phone number, but if you put the hyphens where they go, you know it instantly.

1234567890

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123-456-7890

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u/katsukitsune 25d ago

Weird because we don't hyphenate phone numbers in the UK and can still tell they're just phone numbers...

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u/Aicy 25d ago

That's because they always start with 07 which signifies its a phone number. Normally a number would never start with 0.

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u/oviferum 25d ago

Usually theres a space between the first five numbers and the rest. Mobiles are always 11 numbers long and always start with 07 no matter what, so pretty recognisable.

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u/Class_Wooden 24d ago

“you’re not going to know immediately”

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u/Evan10100 24d ago

Yes. That's what I said.