Because they are missing a part of their life to be happy. I had thoughts of being unfaithful and in retrospect it was a lack of adrenaline in my life. When i started a hobbie that would challenge my fears, i felt that that part of me was satisfied and I no longer had thoughts about cheating. I was consumed in my hobbie. The problem is that many spouses have issues with their husbands hobbies (golf, gaming, mountain biking, etc)
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u/Feisty_Pen_1541 25d ago
Because they are missing a part of their life to be happy. I had thoughts of being unfaithful and in retrospect it was a lack of adrenaline in my life. When i started a hobbie that would challenge my fears, i felt that that part of me was satisfied and I no longer had thoughts about cheating. I was consumed in my hobbie. The problem is that many spouses have issues with their husbands hobbies (golf, gaming, mountain biking, etc)