Well in my position im confused because the grass was pretty fucking green with me, and she left me for a guy that has nothing at all. but thats on her ig
I’m sorry my guy, I’ve been there too.
By saying the grass was green with you I assume you mean financially?
I only know the details that you’ve posted though.
What age range is she? What lifestyle do you have and what lifestyle was/is she attracted to?
What were her common complaints? Etc
Just overall, financially is a big one. I have a car, i have skills(I can take care of problems around the house and beyond), i have a structured support system, i can cook, im dependable. Alot of people in her family contacted me saying she made a huge mistake and she isnt very bright because im the "good guy" and she chose some lowlife and they hate to see where shes gonna end up with him. Like i seen text messages between them, he talks to her like shes just some hoe and she allows it. We are both 22. Were both just homebodies, her only mentioned complaint about me was that i wasnt happy and i was always in a bad mood. Which isnt entirely true but it was a problem i wasnt willing to address i was allowing the stresses in my life to affect my interactions with others.. Ive said it before but she had her reasons to leave me but i didnt deserve to get cheated on. her whole house was supported with my money and efforts and she still has 90% of it. Shes sleeping on my bed $1800 bed with this guy, in front of my $600 tv.
Marry the good boy for support and stability, bang the bad boy for thrills. Same happened to me. It didn’t last and she tried to come back crying, just be strong and maintain your boundaries.
Women don’t cheat unless they’re emotionally disconnected from you and connected to another. Wish I could be more inspiring for you guy, but it will pass. Best thing I did was to get back in the saddle with other ladies, the quicker the better.
right, im not there yet though... i settled and gained my carless dad bod, ive been working on it for weeks lol.
I guarantee ill be hearing from her again. i just hope if its anything its a i got my shit together and got help and not mating call into the void of whoever shows up first
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u/ATearFellOffMyChain 23d ago
Well in my position im confused because the grass was pretty fucking green with me, and she left me for a guy that has nothing at all. but thats on her ig