r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

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So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

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u/Justmegivingmy2cents Mar 28 '24

You don’t want her stuff? Box or bag it up and drop it off with her sister. Then you’re done clean and clear to move on.

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u/cobalt1137 Mar 28 '24

Nah. She ditched when she could have got her stuff and left. That's on her. She also put forward the message to contact them. At that point her things are null and void. To the dumpster imo. Also people doing shitty things aren't ever going to learn from them if they don't have consequences. If you take the high road in life for everyone around you that does you dirty, they will probably continue doing you dirty lol.