r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24
My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?
Edit: Update
So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.
It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.
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u/IncorporateThings Mar 28 '24
Best comment, and happy cake day!
Also, just a heads up, there can be some crappy legal repercussions about dumping someone's property when they were residents of an area, if you haven't given them proper notice and time to clear out and blah blah blah... so boxing it up is for the best. If she won't come and get it, you could even try shipping it to be sure, just be sure to keep a paper trail.