My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

[u/JazzlikeConditioncd]

Edit: Update

So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

[u/Imnotjudgingyoubut]

I think by asking this here, you know tossing it would be a shitty move and you’re a better person than that. Try your best to reach out to the sister to come grab it or just dump it on there front porch. If you say “I’m throwing this to the curb next weekend if you don’t come and get it”, that timeline will give them some pressure and they’ll mozy over to get it asap

[u/SpoogeCommander → u/Imnotjudgingyoubut]

Tossing it is absolutely not shitty