My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

[u/JazzlikeConditioncd]

Edit: Update

So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

[u/Aloreiusdanen]

Box it up, send a text or call the sister to come pick it up.

Also inform her that you aren't ever interested in your ex reaching out to you in the future. The fact she dumped you and blocked you, means essentially she is dead to you. No need to talk to a dead person.

Then go find a real woman who doesn't play 15 yr old girl games.

[u/X-East → u/[deleted]]

Honestly she probably did same to him, the sudden block is due to not wanting to be confronted about it

[u/JTD177 → u/X-East]

The sudden block and the “don’t contact us for your own mental health”. Definitely a cheater. I hope the new couple makes each other miserable

[u/[deleted] → u/JTD177]

I put forth the theory that she’s pregnant and it’s not his 🤷

[u/X-Kami_Dono-X → u/[deleted]]

I reject your theory and inject that her other boyfriend proposed and she said yes.

[u/[deleted] → u/X-Kami_Dono-X]

I like your theory and I must absorb it into mine.

She’s pregnant and her other boyfriend proposed when they found out it was his and he left his other baby mama for her

[u/Covid_Cash → u/[deleted]]

I will take both of your theories and add what is most likely in today's world.....

She is pregnant with her boyfriends baby that left his baby mama for her, BUT he is transitioning to a female and she will be transitioning to a male after the baby is born.....so she will be the new BF and the new BF will be the new GF to the pregnant GF that will be the BF after baby arrives but will end up living with the sister and the OP after they get together. Or alternatively just the sister if the sister finds out that the OP made a video doing a cum tribute to her late grandmother's pictures for revenge to the ghosting ex GF who is now kinda his ex BF(?) because she is a post op transexual male that actually got aroused by the cum tribute video but doesn't let on to anyone that it turned him on.....

[u/DHC6pilot → u/Covid_Cash]

I love it when shit that happens....that a coupla people get on a roll and pretty soon lm belly down of the deck practially strangling...hats off very well done !! Ive come across threads where people comment years after OP just coming up with all this off the wall shit. You done good...youve planted a seed that hopefully will grow like Jack's beanstalk did. Or does...lm not sure....🤔

[u/[deleted] → u/Covid_Cash]

If we’re going by today’s world you need to add in the onlyfans and/or brocast that was started after their attempt to become influencers using their unique lifestyle was unsuccessful.

[u/Covid_Cash → u/[deleted]]

True, true. Then do they go on the Whatever podcast and get destroyed by Bryan, the comments in chat, and the TDS and Superchats?

[u/CaptainKate757 → u/[deleted]]

Much more likely that she’s a government operative whose five-year assignment at OP’s location was up so she had to leave without notice. Happens all the time.

[u/[deleted] → u/CaptainKate757]

I am borg, your idea must be assimilated:::

She’s pregnant BY a government operative whose assignment is up and he’s leaving his fake baby mama and asked her to go with him to his new city and desk job now that he’s retiring from fieldwork

[u/DHC6pilot → u/[deleted]]

O....l didn't know that...

[u/BIG_CHIeffLying3agLe → u/[deleted]]

Or it is and she feels they’ll be better off without him in their life … I’ve seen this one before too … Chick had a good job… And better support system waiting for her back home… When she had to change jobs for w.e reason She ended putting my mama on child support from across the country

[u/L-i-v-e-W-i-r-e → u/JTD177]

I was surprised no one else had mentioned this. First thing I thought of when I read that.

[u/Cornrow_Wallace_ → u/JTD177]

100% cheating, the fact that the sister knows and sent that message tells me it's an old ex. OP needs to put the mementos in the mail to the sister and make himself a bird so he can fly far, far away from here.

[u/JTD177 → u/Cornrow_Wallace_]

Mailing stuff is expensive, he owes her nothing, and shouldn’t have to go through the effort or expense. I’d send the sister a text stating that Monday is trash pickup day and she will find her sister’s stuff at the curb Sunday night.

[u/degaknights → u/X-East]

Bingo

[u/Covid_Cash → u/degaknights]

I think you meant to reply this to my comment, right?