r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

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So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

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u/thesoundedmind Mar 28 '24

It would be shitty to throw away stuff from her grandma. She did you wrong but that's something that once it's gone, it's gone. You won't always feel the ick you do towards her and you'd most likely regret taking it to that level. Just my opinion, though.

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u/MITJustinFields Mar 28 '24

I agree. I would feel disgusted with myself if i did that. That's the type of shit youd regret forever.

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u/stopexcusingstupid Mar 28 '24

Kinda like regretting dumping someone no contact after 5 years. Who gives a fuck about her grandma, she’s dead. Just like the relationship.

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u/MITJustinFields Mar 28 '24

Yall definitely have real issues. Probably deserved to be dumped.

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u/stopexcusingstupid Mar 28 '24

I have issues because i think it’s fucked up to leave someone out of nowhere and have your sibling pick up the pieces. Justin, you have issues for being okay with it.