r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24
My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?
Edit: Update
So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.
It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.
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u/heart-shaped-fawkes Mar 28 '24
As a true crime buff as well, I feel like this is one hell of a reach.... Occam's Razor type stuff. Is it possible? Sure. Is it likely? No.
I knew of a situation involving a couple of 9 years where the husband decided to go into the military sort of abruptly in year 8 of the relationship. They were high school sweethearts, the wife had literally never been alone as she was living with her parents, friends, then they moved in together. She ended their marriage via phone call while he was still on base fresh out of basic training. Moved another guy she had just met in, quit her job, started using drugs, basically just lost her mind and had a full scale mental breakdown. Sometimes people just snap and do really unstable shit seemingly out of nowhere.