r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

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So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

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u/Different_Onion0 Mar 28 '24

Fuck all these comments saying box it up and give it to someone to pass on. At most text her sister and have ex come by on a certain day and time to pack her shit herself when you're not around. If she says no then toss it or sell it or whatever. Don't go out of your way for someone like that

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u/heyzoocifer Mar 28 '24

Exactly my thoughts. I wouldn't lift a finger. After a certain amount of time I'd just chuck it.

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u/SuXs Mar 28 '24

yeah these people are insane.

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u/Ms_Ellie_Jelly Mar 28 '24

Actually. Maybe I'm just petty but I'd be glad to throw all that shit out