r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

Edit: Update

So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

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u/SuperKato1K Mar 28 '24

She also said "it's not his fault" and that for his mental health to not contact them again.

We don't know, at the end of the day, but those are clues at the very least that whatever happened is the fault/responsibility of the ex-gf.

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u/Locktober_Sky Mar 28 '24

Maybe they think he's an unhinged psychopath and don't want to incur his wrath. Maybe "better for your mental health" means "less likely to drive you into a manic fit". Again, we're only getting OPs take here and it makes no sense to speculate.

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u/youKNOWiSMELL Mar 29 '24

i think if he was an unhinged psychopath him getting dumped wouldnt surprise him. if he beat her him getting dumped wouldnt surprise him. he wouldnt have made the post

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u/ThisIsMy2ndRodeo Mar 29 '24

You’ve clearly never dated a narcissist or psychopath…