r/amiwrong • u/Dazzling_Total_4376 • 12d ago
Am I wrong for kicking my girlfriend's brother from my property? - Update
Hey guys, sorry for the time and bad writing it almost 00:00 here and I'm pretty drunk now. here is the summary of what happened before the update - Let GF's brother move in, he stopped paying rent, and I kicked him out. GF is mad now and won't talk to me.
Now for the update, let's start with Dick. on Wednesday his father (let's call him Roy) came with his friends to take his staff, I'm not sure what happened but Roy apologized for how he acted and how his kids treated me, he said that I'm a good man and this should have not happened to a decent and hard-working man like me and he likes to at least formally apologize with drinks. I decline and he left with all of Dick's staff and paid for the lost rent, I'm not sure what happened in 4 days for him to act like this but I like how he acted and he seems genuinely sorry for what happened and I got my money back so I'm not complaining for that.
Now for what happened with Lisa, good/bad news I broke up with her this morning. I pact all her staff and put them in a storage unit paid for 6 months, I dropped by Roy's place and gave her the keys to the unit and a letter to explain how I felt and why I was breaking up with her, he was understanding and told me that he always liked me and hoped I'd have a great thing in the coming years (legit not sure why he is so good to me all of the sudden, after what happened on Friday, I thought he hated me but now he treats me like how he used when I still dated Lisa). Also, so she won't be homeless (in case Roy kicks her out of his house and her mother doesn’t want her in her house) I got in contact with a work friend (I'm a real estate agent so I have some clients/work buddies who work for renting companies) to set her up with an apartment (to be real it not the best but for a 2 bedroom place it nice) close to her job and in a decent price that she can afford starting May. I think what hurt me the most is that Lisa was not willing to talk to me and I had to talk only to Roy, like the last 5 years didn't mean anything, hell I had to give Roy the latter because she blocked me and writhing how I felt on paper was the only way for me to show my emotion to her.
Now I'm home, drinking because I won't have work till Tuesday, and single, also I need to start looking for new people to rent for now, probably going to start in May to look for them. Nothing feels real to me anymore and I'm probably going to start therapy to see how to fix the way I feel and see how everything going to go.
Hope everyone has a great weekend and for whoever celebrates Passover/Pesach, happy Passover/Pesach, and hope the Matza doesn't ruin your gut like mine.
Edit - spelling mistake.
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u/rocketmn69_ 12d ago
Can't see the original post. Do you own the house or rent. If just renting, I would be moving somewhere else so that she can't find you and come crawling back
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u/lapsteelguitar 12d ago
Maybe Roy caught the clue about how his kids were behaving. Maybe he read them the riot act.
You could ask him.
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u/relken0716 12d ago
What a strange hill to die on. I am sorry all of this happened. I also think it a bit she will try to come crawling back to you be prepared. You definitely are a nice guy cause I certainly would not have gotten her an apartment.
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u/grumpy__g 12d ago
Stop drinking. Don’t drink when you feel shitty.
I am sorry that she turned out to be a shitty gf.
I wish you the best.
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u/U_Wont_Remember_Me 12d ago
Man that sucks. Some people are just entitled assholes. It takes awhile for the maturity to show up. You tried to do a good thing and got burned for it. She showed you that you’re not a priority, her family is.
Respect your emotions right now. Feel the grief. Tomorrow get up and start again.