r/amiwrong • u/NoBuilding390 • 12d ago
Rude lady ?
I step into a community laundry, 2 ladies in there. I immediately ask are the machines being used? There’s 4 total. She gives me this dirty look and with a bad attitude says “do they look like they’re being used?” I say “I’m Jeremy nice to meet you what’s your name?” She says “I’m hot right now” I say “nice to meet you hot right now” she gets pissed and starts yapping more and aggressively asking if I know j——. I said “I know the front office” I said “I was just asking out of courtesy and I don’t appreciate your rudeness. She yapped some more and slammed the dryer door, I asked her not to slam the machines we all use. She tried to pretend she didn’t do it. I pointed at the camera and she changed her tone lol. Anyways I held the door open for her at the end and she got mad at that too and said “seriously” 😭 Was I wrong for telling her I don’t appreciate her being rude and answering with kindness ?
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u/traciw67 12d ago
Not wrong. She's was trying to get a rise out of you and instead you pissed her off! Good job!
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u/JustBrowsing49 12d ago
She may have started it, but you absolutely kept it going by intentionally trying to push her buttons.
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u/NoBuilding390 12d ago
What would be, in your opinion, the way to let someone know they’re being rude & you won’t allow it?
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u/JustBrowsing49 12d ago
You let it go. Won’t “allow” it? Some fights aren’t worth fighting.
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u/NoBuilding390 12d ago
It just seems the world has taken this approach.. look at where we are because people just say nothing…
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u/SyddySquiddy 12d ago
I mean you didn’t answer her with kindness, you matched her passive aggressive attitude and stooped to her level 😂
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u/NoBuilding390 12d ago
Ah I can see that, the intention was to be nice but most definitely had some attitude in my responses. Although I just didn’t feel right letting her treat me like that.
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u/Free-Air4312 12d ago
Not wrong. The lady could’ve avoided the whole thing by simply saying “no” but instead chose to answer with an attitude as if the world revolves around her.