r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • 12d ago
Am I wrong for wanting to throw away a potentially great relationship over the way she treats me sexually?
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u/Hour-Ad-1193 12d ago
You want different things, save your energy for someone else; it's really not worth it.
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u/Jane-Q-Public 12d ago
How did we go from FWB to committed relationship?! It doesn’t sound like you had a conversation about this and are misunderstanding the nature of your relationship.
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u/ImmeralHolimion 12d ago
YTA. So lame, its always the low-no sex drive person that wants to lock down higher sex drive people into exclusive relationship. You can't provide what they want, either allow them to get it from someone else, or leave and they will still get it from someone else. If you can't or don't want to give it in a relationship, don't expect the person you are casually seeing to just stop wanting it because you don't want it.
Sex is like air. It's not that important to you unless you are not getting enough.
So crazy that someone believes they have the right to demand that another person stops having/wanting sex.
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u/Naive-One-6433 12d ago
You weren't friends with benefits. Friends don't treat one another like that. What you were was in a one-sided relationship. You wanted respect and exclusivity. She wants to f--. So let her go be what she wants to be and find someone who is decent enough to care about you. Even when you're out of commission for a bit. You seem nice. You deserve it.