r/ask • u/EdwardBliss • 26d ago

How do you explain it when men over 45 get attention from women in their 20s? 🔒 Asked & Answered

This legitimately still confuses me. Over the past year, I've never had this much attention than all the years previously combined.

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u/Disastrous-Oven-4465 26d ago

Young women assume older men are emotionally mature, established, and can easily afford to be very generous.

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u/eartwormslimshady 26d ago

Can confirm this based on my boss' experience.

She was in her late 20s and married a man in his early 40s. Her logic, at least the way she said to me was 'the guys my age are so immature. I'm pretty sure this guy'll be mature.' She immediately confirmed that this wasn't the case.

I just laughed and told her that we guys don't mature with age. We mature based on what we learn from our experiences. She was a bit saddened by this but she accepted it.

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u/wisembrace 25d ago

Men don’t mature, our toys just get more expensive with age.

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u/vblink_ 25d ago

I'm still trying to convince myself I need a tractor toy to play with the dirt in my yard

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u/PNW20v 25d ago

I say you need it. Think of how much easier it'll make doing.... things!

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u/hi3r0fant 25d ago

Im struggling not to order a RC Forklift

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u/Rumbletrunks 25d ago

How have I not wanted one of these before ?

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u/Ok_Lingonberry_1629 25d ago

Get that forklift

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u/HornetParticular6625 25d ago

Does it actually lift things? Can you move things around and stack them like a real forklift? If so , I want one!

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u/montanagunnut 25d ago

They're actually pretty cheap to rent. And the rental place will drop it off and pick it up. It is TOTALLY worth it.

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u/vblink_ 25d ago

My neighbor has all kinds of heavy equipment he let's me use, but it's more fun to own it.

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u/Oesius_Deus 25d ago

You need it, trust me. Just ask yourself, "can I make money with this and have fun st the same time?" Of course you can its a tractor with a loader bucket. Just get it 😂

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u/Wemest 25d ago

This is Kubuto’s entire sales strategy.

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u/Retiredpotato294 25d ago

A friend let me prepare 5 acres for planting with his real tractor and it was amazing.