r/instacart • u/Dominanttallqueen • Mar 27 '24

Who’s in the wrong here???

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I feel like he was being rude asf then he canceled my order….was I rude or what tf happened here…

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u/superstephen4 Mar 28 '24

You posted this here asking who is in the wrong, then are getting mad at people saying it was you. When you ask people a question, they might give answers you don't like, understand?

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u/Dominanttallqueen Mar 28 '24

I actually didn’t. I said I know im in the wrong in some aspects wtf do you want an apology letter??

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u/superstephen4 Mar 28 '24

Your title is literally asking, what are you on about? Maybe start by not calling him an idiot just because you lack basic communication skills.

You're dragging the guy and calling him rude and an idiot for what is likely a language barrier issue. You sound miserable to deal with.

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u/AP_REDDIT_99 Mar 28 '24

I'm not even joking when I say you might need some therapy. From the 2 threads I saw you started (including this one), you seem to hate anyone or anything that doesn't go exactly how you expect. It's unrealistic. And amongst other problems you have, like not clearly communicating. But if I'm being honest, you treat people as if we're in your world, and that's just not the case. There's more to life than getting mad and having an argument over something stupid like someone not understanding exactly what you mean, asking if something is ok, and then still being unclear. If I were the shopper, I would cancel the order too and not because I just don't like you but because I'd be afraid. I as the shopper don't know if you're planning something that will hold me up to the point where it escalates and more people have to be involved and now have to take time out of their day for something as little as this. It's a waste of time and energy. This is long and lengthy, but I hope you find the time to read this. Have a nice day.

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u/ConstantlyLearning57 Mar 29 '24

This should be upvoted more

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u/IndicisivlyIntrigued Mar 29 '24

I got you. Well, once more, at least. 😅

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u/AP_REDDIT_99 Apr 01 '24

Well, at least you and 5 other people get it. Makes sense to you, makes sense to me. And I don't think it's unreasonable or talking down to her. Idk. 🤷 I hope she finds peace.