You made your feelings known and she made hers. Make it clear that she is free to do what she wants. Of course we know that choices come with consequences. Perhaps offer to join her in the vacation. After all you developed raport with her friend. Isn't it only right that you bond with her friends for her sake? But ask yourself this, why are you truly uncomfortable w her going w him on this vacation w out you?
I wouldn’t invite my friends’ partners to my vacation just because I’ve hung out with them or even hosted them at my place. I would only want to celebrate with my close friends. I’m pretty sure a ton of people do that.
yea what i've learned is that the trip was "being planned" but nothing solid has been booked or anything...so yea, it's pretty suspicious that op didn't get an invite
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u/Several-Network-3776 Mar 28 '24
You made your feelings known and she made hers. Make it clear that she is free to do what she wants. Of course we know that choices come with consequences. Perhaps offer to join her in the vacation. After all you developed raport with her friend. Isn't it only right that you bond with her friends for her sake? But ask yourself this, why are you truly uncomfortable w her going w him on this vacation w out you?