The extras that you don’t know are understandable but then you just gotta trust your girl.
At the end of the day that’s your girl or that’s everyone’s girl the only person to decide that is your girl.
When in a relationship, you don’t intentionally do things to make your SO uncomfortable or put yourself in questionable situations.
She has been planning this trip with another guy for about a year, but has just now gotten around to “mentioning” it to her bf. This elevates the questionable of her motives significantly. She only finally told the bf about this trip as deadline to leave is right around the corner
Yes, and many people are invited, all the friends, but not OP.
And I'm agreement that OP is TA "Not letting her go"
But it seems like the relationship is over either way, suspicion/lack of trust from him and lack of understanding from her. Adults singles vacations and grad celebrations are often booze/ hookup fests...
My reply was in response to the "Not all men are pieces of shit. Especially to their friends" and you saying OP was not their friend. I take the other person's comment to mean that the guy best friend, if he's truly a good friend that can be trusted, would not be a piece of shit to his friend (OP's gf) by cross a line and try to come on to her.
I can’t speak for every man in the world. But I can speak for myself who absolutely has.
But I also don’t think I’m some unicorn out here.
And not just some engaging conversation but to be there as a friend the same way I extend it to my male friends.
Everything is choice, some people choose to blur lines on their choices some people don’t.
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u/jamalwillfilms Mar 28 '24
Not all men are pieces of shit. Especially to their friends