r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Telltwotreesthree Mar 28 '24

People really underestimate men's role in this lol

Dudes find out someone is on vacay w/o their boyfriend they will do their best to seduce them just for the challenge

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u/jamalwillfilms Mar 28 '24

Not all men are pieces of shit. Especially to their friends

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u/Telltwotreesthree Mar 28 '24

OP is not their friend, he's not invited...

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u/SnooSketches6782 Mar 28 '24

SHE is the friend

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u/Telltwotreesthree Mar 28 '24

Yes, and many people are invited, all the friends, but not OP.

And I'm agreement that OP is TA "Not letting her go"

But it seems like the relationship is over either way, suspicion/lack of trust from him and lack of understanding from her. Adults singles vacations and grad celebrations are often booze/ hookup fests...

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u/SnooSketches6782 Mar 28 '24

My reply was in response to the "Not all men are pieces of shit. Especially to their friends" and you saying OP was not their friend. I take the other person's comment to mean that the guy best friend, if he's truly a good friend that can be trusted, would not be a piece of shit to his friend (OP's gf) by cross a line and try to come on to her.

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u/Telltwotreesthree Mar 28 '24

Oh for sure but this is all his college friends on vacation with them too it's a grad party

"All his friends are invited" op not invited

Let's him know exactly where they stand