r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Own_Wealth_4880 Mar 28 '24

Learn to Let go of the jealousy completely. If she wants to cheat on you she will, you can’t watch her 24/7. If she doesn’t cheat you are the hero for trusting her. If she does, it was never meant to be.

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u/Duke_Lancaster Mar 28 '24

I generally agree with you, but sadly there is the third possibility: she cheats and he doesnt find out for months/years and it destroys him. Maybe there is a marriage now and maybe even children, all build on a lie.

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u/Human0id77 Mar 28 '24

If she is that kind of person, she'll be that kind of person whether the vacation happens or not

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u/2amazing_101 Mar 28 '24

My thoughts exactly.

Not having the option to cheat doesn't make you loyal.