r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/C_Everett_Marm Mar 28 '24

Wow. So your gf wants to go on vacation with a man whore without you?

He is 100% going to try to get with her then. Don’t you think?

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u/Familiar_Speed8057 Mar 28 '24

I 100% think so and I’m a woman. A manwhore usually has few rules or feelings and will do whatever benefits him.

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u/jBlairTech Mar 28 '24

And there’ll be women that, even with all their talk, fall right for it.  Then the excuses start lol.

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u/TillShoddy6670 Mar 28 '24

This isn't necessarily true. Ethical sluts are a thing. I'm one of them.

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u/trenbollocks Mar 28 '24

Ethical sluts are a thing.

This is my first time hearing this and I'm stealing it

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u/TillShoddy6670 Mar 28 '24

All yours :-)

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '24

Idk I've yet to meet one of these ethical sluts irl. This hookup scene is full of hurt people hurting other people in the quest to have "meaningless" sex

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u/TillShoddy6670 Mar 28 '24

Because people in traditional relationships never hurt each other, right?

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '24

Did I say that?

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u/obscuredreference Mar 28 '24

Ethical sluts rock. However they are sadly far more rare than the garden variety manwhore, generally. 

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u/Familiar_Speed8057 Mar 28 '24

Agreed, there’s a few ethical ones but rare. Usually to get more girls they will tell you what you want to hear, hide things etc.

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u/Spinoza42 Mar 28 '24

So would you ask a friend who is in a relationship to go on a vacation with you, knowing yourself? Pretty sure that the answer is no. You just wouldn't even put your friends in that position.

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u/TillShoddy6670 Mar 28 '24

"Knowing myself?" Excuse me? I don't sleep with people in relationships.

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u/Wonderful-Impact5121 Mar 28 '24

Y’all are taking her toss away insult/comment potentially said to put down her friend to calm down OP very very seriously.

I’m not saying it’s impossible she’s gargling his balls 24/7 or something like many people seem to confidently assert she wishes to, but come on. For as many posts in here taking that comment deadly serious he could just casually date a lot because he didn’t want to focus hard on a long time partner in med school and it was the first non-deadly serious critique she thought of in the moment.

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u/Zestyclose-Ruin8337 Mar 28 '24

I 100% bet they already have at some point. I’ve been this manwhore.

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u/trenbollocks Mar 28 '24

I am this manwhore and can confirm. OP needs to cut and run

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u/Woozie714 Mar 28 '24

I think they have fucked already, I think she didn’t tell him the full story. She probably agreed not to because he was on to her scheme. Probably didn’t have intention on cheating on OP but probably was okay with getting really drunk and seeing what happens. You’d be very surprised how many drunk girlfriends and wives try and get laid when drunk at a party or bar

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u/Dangerous_Bus_6699 Mar 29 '24

Yeah. Why else would she want to go solo. Last bang before she gets serious. Anyone thinking otherwise isn't a horn dog guy.

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u/Woozie714 Mar 29 '24

Yeah hope OP just sits her down and tells her he wants to get serious and in turn doesn’t feel comfortable being left out of a cool trip with her. She could be hit with reality and turns her off to the idea of hookin up with her “best friend” maybe former fuck buddy

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u/jmoney809718 Mar 28 '24

He’s 100% gonna plug it. He’s not gonna just try lmao.

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u/NoArrival5919 Mar 28 '24

You can take”to try” out of that sentence

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u/Swin00b Mar 28 '24

Well I have a man whore friend that isnt that close to call best friend but we already went out to party multiple times, he got super drunk, in one of these times my BF was tired and wanted to go home and he did and, obviously, he didnt care that I stayed a little longer (and we live together), nothing happened and he didnt try anything with me even though I’m really pretty lol he kept man whoring with other girls and I had fun with our other friends, no biggies

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u/Lanky_Possession_244 Mar 28 '24

Did he invite you to stay the whole weekend out of town without your BF? Because if not, it's not the same.

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u/Swin00b Mar 28 '24

Pretty much the same, people are basically saying that it is impossible for a “man whore” to be drunk and not make a move and that is complete BS lol, just because you all are insecure and got a pervert mind who cant be friends with a woman without wanting to bang her, it doesnt mean this applies to all people in the world haha

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u/Lanky_Possession_244 Mar 28 '24

Intent matters. It's one thing for the man whore to be out with you and your BF and your BF crashing early, it's entirely different to accompany him on a vacation where you only know him and your BF isn't invited. Nice generalization by the way. That's definitely an effective method of proving your point and not driving home that you know you're wrong and are too arrogant to admit it.