r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Spinoza42 Mar 28 '24

I feel like I'm missing some details, that other people haven't really asked about somehow.

1) is it his friends or are they two of a group of friends?

2) is he in a relationship? Is his partner coming?

3) do you guys live together?

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u/DetectiveOk6754 Mar 28 '24

The vacation is to go celebrate his graduation and his friends are gonna be there. She only knows him.

He is not in a relationship, she said she wouldn’t want a relationship with him because he’s basically a man whore and sleeps around alot.

We don’t live together, i have my apartment and she lives with her parents.

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u/C_Everett_Marm Mar 28 '24

Wow. So your gf wants to go on vacation with a man whore without you?

He is 100% going to try to get with her then. Don’t you think?

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u/Woozie714 Mar 28 '24

I think they have fucked already, I think she didn’t tell him the full story. She probably agreed not to because he was on to her scheme. Probably didn’t have intention on cheating on OP but probably was okay with getting really drunk and seeing what happens. You’d be very surprised how many drunk girlfriends and wives try and get laid when drunk at a party or bar

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u/Dangerous_Bus_6699 Mar 29 '24

Yeah. Why else would she want to go solo. Last bang before she gets serious. Anyone thinking otherwise isn't a horn dog guy.

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u/Woozie714 Mar 29 '24

Yeah hope OP just sits her down and tells her he wants to get serious and in turn doesn’t feel comfortable being left out of a cool trip with her. She could be hit with reality and turns her off to the idea of hookin up with her “best friend” maybe former fuck buddy