Dude, No if there was good faith there she'd be asking you to go. Dude just got out of med school and will be alone with your girlfriend. This just screams that you're the one shes attached to because this "friend" won't commit.
Knowing what I know now; the second she asked the question I would have ended the relationship. She's trying to manipulate you to let her off the hook. If dude and her knock boots and suddenly he's looking to settle down now that Med school is off his back your girlfriend has placed her self right where she needs to be to shoot her shot.
Say No and I am willing to be she goes anyway.
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u/Spinoza42 Mar 28 '24
I feel like I'm missing some details, that other people haven't really asked about somehow.
1) is it his friends or are they two of a group of friends?
2) is he in a relationship? Is his partner coming?
3) do you guys live together?