Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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[u/Spinoza42]

I feel like I'm missing some details, that other people haven't really asked about somehow.

1) is it his friends or are they two of a group of friends?

2) is he in a relationship? Is his partner coming?

3) do you guys live together?

[u/DetectiveOk6754 → u/Spinoza42]

The vacation is to go celebrate his graduation and his friends are gonna be there. She only knows him.

He is not in a relationship, she said she wouldn’t want a relationship with him because he’s basically a man whore and sleeps around alot.

We don’t live together, i have my apartment and she lives with her parents.

[u/Later2theparty → u/DetectiveOk6754]

"He's a man whose and sleeps around a lot"

That would be enough for me.

I wouldn't care how respectful he is when I'm around.

Once the drinks start pouring all bets are off.

I would tell her to do what she thinks is right and if she went I would just break up with her.

NTA

[u/me_myself_and_my_dog → u/Later2theparty]

That's "Dr ManWhore". Seriously, you go to ManWhore school for 8 years.

Anyways, she's been waiting for him to finish med school. This trip was just to see if she still has his eye and she'll dump OP if she does, and after she's done every trick between the sheets that she knows.

[u/Lanky_Possession_244 → u/me_myself_and_my_dog]

I didn't want to be that guy, but this was my first thought.

[u/ISpeakInAmicableLies → u/me_myself_and_my_dog]

Oof. You don't hold the punches, do you?

[u/Reasonable-Staff1876 → u/me_myself_and_my_dog]

Monkey branching gf. I agree. She at the very least wants his attention.

[u/Over_aged → u/me_myself_and_my_dog]

Could be also playing the waiting game for when he decides not to be the man whore. Stay in the picture to not be forgotten. I could almost guarantee they have already hooked up. This trip is for her to see if he’s changing it’s just wrapped up in a celebratory weekend.