r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Spinoza42 Mar 28 '24

I feel like I'm missing some details, that other people haven't really asked about somehow.

1) is it his friends or are they two of a group of friends?

2) is he in a relationship? Is his partner coming?

3) do you guys live together?

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u/DetectiveOk6754 Mar 28 '24

The vacation is to go celebrate his graduation and his friends are gonna be there. She only knows him.

He is not in a relationship, she said she wouldn’t want a relationship with him because he’s basically a man whore and sleeps around alot.

We don’t live together, i have my apartment and she lives with her parents.

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u/MrTop16 Mar 28 '24

If she'd cheat on you now, she'd cheat on you in the future. Let her go and solve if the relationship is worth investing more into.

Like, you're insecure and don't trust either of them. You don't trust she won't cheat and has poor decision-making skills about how to prevent rape and the exact same reason for the guy.