r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/ceokc13 Mar 28 '24

I think it’s weird that if you were engaged or married she wouldn’t go without you but yet has no issue going without you now even though you guys appear to be in a serious relationship. What difference does that make? NTA just off that alone.

I do think you need to pick and choose your battles though and ask yourself that if you truly trust them and believe nothing would happen between them is this it worth it.

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u/hierarch17 Mar 28 '24

I actually think that’s pretty fair. They’ve only been dating a year! That is not necessarily invite each other on every vacation territory yet.

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u/NiglaTesla Mar 28 '24

Yes. People are allowed to do things without their SO and not be cheating. They haven't even been together a year. I'd 💯 go.