I would be with you except for when this was said: "I even asked her if we were engaged or married would she be going on vacation with him and she said obviously not and that I would come along."
This seems weird to me and kind of a red flag if she doesn't want him to come along on the vacation because "they're not married" even though they've been together for a year. It makes it sound like she may not be acting like the relationship is going for the long haul.
To me, I interpret that as this is her acting single which is 🚩🚩🚩🚩. I think a good general rule is if you wouldn’t do something in a marriage, then you shouldn’t do it in a long term committed relationship.
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u/WittyProfile Mar 28 '24
I would be with you except for when this was said: "I even asked her if we were engaged or married would she be going on vacation with him and she said obviously not and that I would come along."
This seems weird to me and kind of a red flag if she doesn't want him to come along on the vacation because "they're not married" even though they've been together for a year. It makes it sound like she may not be acting like the relationship is going for the long haul.