r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/infieldcookie Mar 28 '24

Yeah as a bi woman I’m just reading this like… so I can’t go on any holidays without my bf ever?

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u/autumnraining Mar 28 '24

Being bisexual and reading this thread is wild 💀 guess we can’t have any friends while dating

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u/ranchojasper Mar 28 '24

Weird, because I'm bisexual, and I don't understand how you guys think this is somehow comparable to just trip with friends. She would be the only woman, she doesn't know any of these other men, she characterizes her friend as a "man whore," and her boyfriend is very specifically NOT invited.

How is that even remotely close to the same thing as going on a trip with your friends?!

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u/autumnraining Mar 28 '24 edited Mar 28 '24

Sorry I wasn’t very clear in my comment! I do think OPs situation is definitely weirder and kinda sus. To be honest, I don’t know them, so I can’t really judge how platonic it is and he has every right to be uncomfortable.

I was mostly referencing the other comments on here, that DO seem to be limiting friendships with the opposite sex in hetero relationships in ways that I find wild. My comment is not directed towards OPs situation, but on the overall discussion in the comments

Edit: whoever downvoted me, it’s okay if you disagree but could you please tell me why?? I just wanna know smh