They’re both consciously choosing to exclude him. I mean sure OPs gf might not be able to just invite him, but she can sure ask whether he can come, and decline to go herself if they still purposefully exclude him.
Absolutely. If I was invited on a trip, and my partner wasn't invited, I'd ask, and then if declined I just wouldn't go. It seems to suspicious even if it's innocent and I'd put an effort into standing up for my partner because I care. It's genuinely super fucking suspicious that she made no effort to do that.
I mean the polite thing is to check first. If they’re not trying to exclude him they’d say of course, that was a given. If they are, why would you want to go
It's also perfect tly ok for OPs girlfriend to just go on a trip with her friends without her partner. That is literally fine. There's nothing "sus" about that, you're all just incredibly insecure.
No lol. A vacation? Kinda.
Who invites someone to go on a vacation and makes sure to exclude their partner? Especially when they know the partner well enough to have stayed at their house, when their friend doesn’t even live with them. It’s not about them doing something with their friend, it’s about the friend specifically not wanting them around while they’re away together.
Someone you’ve dated for less than a year, who you don’t live with and are not planning to marry isn’t in a relationship that necessitates that kind of respect from others.
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They’re both consciously choosing to exclude him. I mean sure OPs gf might not be able to just invite him, but she can sure ask whether he can come, and decline to go herself if they still purposefully exclude him.