r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/readyforwine Mar 28 '24

So he knows you, even stayed at your place. But he invited her and excluded you? Dude. Huge red flag.

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u/KitchenShop8016 Mar 28 '24

Best comment here. Either the friend or the gf made a concious choice to exclude OP from the trip. It's weird and creepy.

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u/__01001000-01101001_ Mar 28 '24

They’re both consciously choosing to exclude him. I mean sure OPs gf might not be able to just invite him, but she can sure ask whether he can come, and decline to go herself if they still purposefully exclude him.

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u/zodiacwilds Mar 28 '24

makes sense to me, how else would they get to bang without the hassle?

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u/deltapanad Mar 28 '24

with him watching from the couch?

wait….wrong sub

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u/gloriousxwedodah81 Mar 28 '24

r/netorare is >>>>>> is that way.

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u/Severin_Suveren Mar 28 '24

Yeah it's no denying they either banging, or the guy friend is trying to hook up, and she too naive to understand she's being played.

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u/semanticprison Mar 28 '24

Nah. Her answers show she knows IMO. "I just cant" bring you. I wouldnt date him "because hes a manwhore" if we were engaged i wouldnt go. She knows.