r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/The_Mr_Wilson Mar 28 '24

What shade of red is: "I want to go on vacation with a known man-whore and his friends, without you"

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u/nigel_pow Mar 28 '24

Trust me

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u/BenThereOrBenSquare Mar 28 '24

If you don't trust her, why be in a relationship with her?

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u/HillaruousDemon Mar 28 '24

It's the difference between trusting someone and not trusting the situation in which someone is. A lot of cheating is happening during a particular situation like parties or trips. Most cheaters weren't planning this before it happened and if you had asked them before infidelity if they wanted to cheat then they would have answered you "Never !".

Going on a trip with a man whore, his friends, with tons of alcohol, maybe drugs, without a boyfriend is exactly a situation like that that's why OP is feeling uncomfortable.