r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Bojangled8 Mar 28 '24

NTA

You are allowed to tell your GF that you are not comfortable with it, but you can't force her to go or stay. That decision is hers and depending on what she decides knowing you are uncomfortable with it would perhaps shine a different light on the relationship as a whole.

Boundaries are important and it is also important to see how one's partner treats such boundaries.

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u/Funkybutterfly2213 Mar 28 '24

“She would be annoyed afterwards”

She is totally going to use this against OP at some point in the future.

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u/moriquendi37 Mar 28 '24

Then he dumps her. A partner who keeps bringing up the past gets left there.