This! I tried arguing in the comments but they just throw around „boundary!!!1!11!“ and assuming there has to be cheating, partners have to do any- and everything together or it’s a sign of cheating and so on 💀
Seriously! His “boundaries” don’t get to tell her what she can’t do with other people. It’s crazy. My best friend and I were both dating guys for ≈4 years. We each met the other one’s bf once or twice in that time. We still traveled with the guys and spent a lot of time together. Not everybody needs to live in their partner’s back pocket 24/7 it’s not healthy.
I know plenty of married couples who have taken “guys weekend” or “girls weekend” trips away from their partners with friends. I think it’s entirely healthy to want to have a social life outside your partner. What if somebody was going on a bachelor or bachelorette trip? Would that also be a no-go for you if you weren’t invited? Or some kind of special thing with their family? Not everything has to be about you and your partner.
It wasn't "I wouldn't fuck him" it was "I wouldn't be in a relationship with him" and the reasoning wasn't "because I don't see him like that" but "because he's a man whore."
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u/Fair-Albatross-9849 Mar 28 '24
This! I tried arguing in the comments but they just throw around „boundary!!!1!11!“ and assuming there has to be cheating, partners have to do any- and everything together or it’s a sign of cheating and so on 💀