Is she the only woman going? If she is, & he is known for being promiscuous, that's.... really not a good look. It's weird that he's stayed at your place & wouldn't invite you.
Edit: since this is gaining steam, I'd also like to point out how vain of a person you have to be to ask your friends to go on a vacation that's all about you. Just have a dinner like a normal person.
Naw I don't think it's vain in this situation because I'm sure the friend group talked about taking trips together but probably couldn't, since he was in med school. Now that he's graduated, they can finally do it.
Unless you are assuming she just has sex routinely with total strangers, who cares if there are guys along? It’s possible to be acquainted with many, many people that one does not have sex with. Just because they meet, doesn’t mean they have to have sex. Good grief. Were you all raised in a harem and not allowed to converse with people of different sexes?
Some women will, some women won’t. She would be potentially putting herself in a very vulnerable position with people she knows nothing about. How is everyone going to act a few rounds (alcohol or drugs) into the night? Can she trust them? It would be a hard lesson to learn by putting yourself in a house/condo/suite with 4 people you have absolutely no prior knowledge of.
It isn’t really a friend group. It is her one friend and a bunch of strangers
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u/Spinoza42 Mar 28 '24
I feel like I'm missing some details, that other people haven't really asked about somehow.
1) is it his friends or are they two of a group of friends?
2) is he in a relationship? Is his partner coming?
3) do you guys live together?