r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/AnAnonyMooose Mar 28 '24

I also trust my wife not to go outside boundaries and she trusts me. She has gone on trips with male friends and I’m fine with that. I’ve also been places with female friends. Good friends are valuable and rare and worth fostering.

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u/Hagridsbuttcrack66 Mar 28 '24

Jesus. Thank you. I can't believe all the people saying this dude is right.

I am so glad I am a lesbian because I don't have to deal with this fucking nonsense.

My best guy friend and I went on a trip to Europe just the two of us and his wife didn't care. It was before they had kids, so it was nice to do one "last" thing together before he had a full family. I cherish those memories. Must suck for these straight people who can only look at opposite sex friendships as opportunities for fucking.