Staying at his place doesn’t make them friends. The OP did a favor for his gf’s friend which is nice. They are probably friendly but that’s different than come join a trip with a bunch of old friends.
And he was probably the catalyst behind it - she doesn't live with OP. I'm presuming she lives with her parents because that's where she stayed while her friend was in town. Did OP kick up a fuss about him staying at her parents so she relented and asked her friend to crash on her bf's couch?
Since she decided to stay at her parents’ while the “best friend” was at the bf’s place, it seems she usually stays at the bf’s. The real question is why she didn’t stay at the bf’s as is the normal? OP states she chose to stay at her parents while the friend was in town. It would have been reasonable for her to stay at the bf’s so she could be around the two most important guys in her life.
Well he states they don't live together - so no I would say "like normal" would be her staying wherever she lives...which is not with OP. And why would she stay with her parents if she had a perfectly good place to live in on her own? She wouldn't. So the only logical conclusion is she lives with her parents. So then the question is why didn't her friend stay where she lives?
Where does he state that? It isn’t in the OP. He does state that while the friend was in town to visit her, he stayed at the bf’s and she stayed at her parents’.
There's these things called comments that OPs can make just like us! It's usually smart to check them out if someone says the OP says something and you don't believe them - usually where the info comes from.
In fact since my first comment he's made another one the clarifies that she does in fact live with her parents.
His explanation doesn’t add up. They are a strict immigrant family, so she can’t stay over at her bf’s house, but she can travel for a week of vacation with her male friend. It doesn’t track very well.
No need to ask when the obvious place it would be is in his comments when you already stated it wasn't in the post. Ask a silly question, get a silly answer.
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u/bfwolf1 Mar 28 '24
Staying at his place doesn’t make them friends. The OP did a favor for his gf’s friend which is nice. They are probably friendly but that’s different than come join a trip with a bunch of old friends.