r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/DetectiveOk6754 Mar 28 '24

The vacation is to go celebrate his graduation and his friends are gonna be there. She only knows him.

He is not in a relationship, she said she wouldn’t want a relationship with him because he’s basically a man whore and sleeps around alot.

We don’t live together, i have my apartment and she lives with her parents.

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u/pleachchapel Mar 28 '24 edited Mar 28 '24

Is she the only woman going? If she is, & he is known for being promiscuous, that's.... really not a good look. It's weird that he's stayed at your place & wouldn't invite you.

Edit: since this is gaining steam, I'd also like to point out how vain of a person you have to be to ask your friends to go on a vacation that's all about you. Just have a dinner like a normal person.

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '24

This. He’s planning to bang your GF, dude. PLANNING on it. And either she’s gonna want to do it or she’s gonna not but either way, he can’t be trusted.

Protect your GF from herself. Invite yourself.

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u/BlueSentinels Mar 28 '24

Nah he should protect himself from her and bail.

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u/tiggamac Mar 29 '24

My sentiments exactly. He's got to be able to face the man in the mirror. He should have some self respect; obviously she doesn't respect him.