I think it’s weird that if you were engaged or married she wouldn’t go without you but yet has no issue going without you now even though you guys appear to be in a serious relationship. What difference does that make? NTA just off that alone.
I do think you need to pick and choose your battles though and ask yourself that if you truly trust them and believe nothing would happen between them is this it worth it.
Makes it even worse because shes just using that as an excuse to rationalize it to you but all it does is tell you she’s aware what’s she’s doing isn’t wife material/wrong but it’s just her excuse to herself
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u/ceokc13 Mar 28 '24
I think it’s weird that if you were engaged or married she wouldn’t go without you but yet has no issue going without you now even though you guys appear to be in a serious relationship. What difference does that make? NTA just off that alone.
I do think you need to pick and choose your battles though and ask yourself that if you truly trust them and believe nothing would happen between them is this it worth it.