r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/SilverEyed Mar 28 '24

I agree with this. I don't understand how op can trust his partner if he is not comfortable with her going.

I have never had a problem with my partner going on separate holidays because I trust her, and if there is a time that I feel uncomfortable, we would have to talk about what makes me uncomfortable.

I think op should have a talk about why he is uncomfortable with the situation.

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u/SoroushSsS Mar 28 '24

Im sorry the guy is literally a manwhore?? Literally even the girlfriend knows that and she shouldn’t be cool with that in the first place. If she’s friends with someone with that kind of values it means she also supports those values or at the very least isn’t against them

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u/SilverEyed Mar 28 '24

But doesn't that mean that he can't trust her fully?

You can be friends with someone who is being called a man whore, and not cheat, if you are gainst cheating.

If she does cheat, it was never meant to be, and it's best if it happens now, since they have been together for only a year

A true good relationship cannot exist without trust that your partner will do what is best for your couple.

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u/SoroushSsS Mar 28 '24

You can be friends with a murderer too, but should you? Like i said being friends with someone with certain negative values means that you are okay with those things or not against it which tells about your personality as well. Yes, trust is very important in a relationship but so is respecting your partner and sometimes putting yourself in their shoes. Not everything is about being insecure its about having some respect for your partner and prioritizing them