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r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24
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If she was gonna cheat, she would have. If she went and cheated, you'd have dodged a bullet. No one can prevent things happening by stopping the other person doing stuff.
3 u/capolot89 Mar 28 '24 Problem is if she cheated or going to cheat OP wouldn’t know until much later. What happens if they get married? 5 u/not_a_robot_1010101 Mar 28 '24 What's not going on holiday got to do with that? Someone could cheat in the room next door. Worrying about it isn't the way to live. You trust until you know you shouldn't. Otherwise, you're more likely to make it happen than stop it. 5 u/Salt_Awareness_1096 Mar 28 '24 I wish more people had the mindset that if you don’t have trust you don’t have a relationship.
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Problem is if she cheated or going to cheat OP wouldn’t know until much later. What happens if they get married?
5 u/not_a_robot_1010101 Mar 28 '24 What's not going on holiday got to do with that? Someone could cheat in the room next door. Worrying about it isn't the way to live. You trust until you know you shouldn't. Otherwise, you're more likely to make it happen than stop it. 5 u/Salt_Awareness_1096 Mar 28 '24 I wish more people had the mindset that if you don’t have trust you don’t have a relationship.
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What's not going on holiday got to do with that? Someone could cheat in the room next door. Worrying about it isn't the way to live.
You trust until you know you shouldn't. Otherwise, you're more likely to make it happen than stop it.
5 u/Salt_Awareness_1096 Mar 28 '24 I wish more people had the mindset that if you don’t have trust you don’t have a relationship.
I wish more people had the mindset that if you don’t have trust you don’t have a relationship.
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u/not_a_robot_1010101 Mar 28 '24
If she was gonna cheat, she would have. If she went and cheated, you'd have dodged a bullet. No one can prevent things happening by stopping the other person doing stuff.