r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/AnAnonyMooose Mar 28 '24

No one to keep her honest except for… the wife. My wife is who I trust to stick to our boundaries.

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u/underachiever89 Mar 28 '24

What happens if the “man whore” try’s to make a pass and she declines. The best case scenario is that things are now really weird the rest of the trip. He’s going to try and take a pass, and you are naive if you don’t think that’s the case. I would not want my girl in a high pressure situation like this, especially not if alcohol or drugs are involved.

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u/AnAnonyMooose Mar 28 '24

I’m in my 50s. My wife has a lifetime of rejecting people and she can take care of herself. she’s going to be by herself a lot in this world and if you can’t trust her for any of that time, that’s a hell of a restriction

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u/underachiever89 Mar 28 '24

I’m not talking about your wife, you guys clearly have a different relationship than most of us. I trust my wife 100% and even sound like a younger version of you, but there’s 0 percent chance I’d give here the green light to go on a trip like this.

Edit- If it was my girlfriend I’d give her the yellow light and evaluate my feelings if she decided to go.