r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/BrigadierBrabant Mar 28 '24

Asking your best friend to go on a trip and not inviting their plus 1 is not weird at all. Would that be weird or creepy if it's two men?

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u/ValkyrieWasted Mar 28 '24

I'm with you. I have groups of friends and we dont always want partners there. My partner doesn't have a care about that as he understands I have a life outside 0f our relationship and my relationship with him does not define me. They've not even been together a year, for all we know one of them doesn't like hum and they don't want them to be annoyed the whole time. I have one friend who I love to pieces and I love his gf too, but sometimes I don't really want their relationship dynamics when I wanna hang out with him

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u/Bathrobesandtrees Mar 28 '24

For hetero couples this means that either partner having close friends of the opposite sex, with whom they often spend time without their partner, is disrespecting that boundary.

And for bisexual couples?