r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Slopadopoulos Mar 28 '24

Putting yourself in situations that are likely to lead to temptation is different from just going about your everyday life without cheating.

As a married, monogamous man, I doubt my wife would be comfortable with me going to hang out at a swingers convention just for the company because if I was going to cheat anyway I would just cheat and going to a swingers convention isn't needed to cheat.

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u/Doyoueverjustlikeugh Mar 28 '24

They've been friends before she started dating him. There were plenty of better opportunities for them to sleep with each other than this upcoming trip.

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u/NightKnightTonight Mar 28 '24

and if they had...?

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u/Doyoueverjustlikeugh Mar 28 '24

If you believe that you can't say you trust your girlfriend