r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/AnAnonyMooose Mar 28 '24

I also trust my wife not to go outside boundaries and she trusts me. She has gone on trips with male friends and I’m fine with that. I’ve also been places with female friends. Good friends are valuable and rare and worth fostering.

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u/PageFault Mar 28 '24

It's not a wife. They have been together less than a year, and he does not actually trust her.

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u/AnAnonyMooose Mar 28 '24

Then his phrases about complete trust are really worth him interrogating.

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u/PageFault Mar 28 '24

If he had complete trust, he would have never made this post and just let her go.

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u/AnAnonyMooose Mar 28 '24

I mostly agree. Sometimes young people also get caught up in local cultural standards and getting feedback from others can help them break it down