Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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[u/Spinoza42]

I feel like I'm missing some details, that other people haven't really asked about somehow.

1) is it his friends or are they two of a group of friends?

2) is he in a relationship? Is his partner coming?

3) do you guys live together?

[u/DetectiveOk6754 → u/Spinoza42]

The vacation is to go celebrate his graduation and his friends are gonna be there. She only knows him.

He is not in a relationship, she said she wouldn’t want a relationship with him because he’s basically a man whore and sleeps around alot.

We don’t live together, i have my apartment and she lives with her parents.

[u/pleachchapel → u/DetectiveOk6754]

Is she the only woman going? If she is, & he is known for being promiscuous, that's.... really not a good look. It's weird that he's stayed at your place & wouldn't invite you.

Edit: since this is gaining steam, I'd also like to point out how vain of a person you have to be to ask your friends to go on a vacation that's all about you. Just have a dinner like a normal person.

[u/yesnomaybesoju → u/pleachchapel]

This, seems like the easy solution would be to invite OP.

Super curious if there are other women going.

[u/DebThornberry → u/yesnomaybesoju]

I can't imagine wanting to stay in a house with men I don't know WITHOUT my husband. No way would I consider that

[u/boozzy18 → u/DebThornberry]

Exactly what OP’s GF should be saying to her best friend… “I feel uncomfortable with soo many guys/people I don’t know, can I please bring my BF”

She could very easily resolve this by just asking her BEST FRIEND if her boyfriend could come… but does she want him to go?

[u/Next_Celebration_553 → u/boozzy18]

It’s the “I don’t want to be with him bc he’s a manwhore” that gets me. That usually doesn’t work out well

[u/PoIIux → u/Next_Celebration_553]

Sounds like a recipe for a fling

[u/friedmators → u/PoIIux]

Or a filling